Exhausted? Nervous about a big change? Can't seem to break those bad habits? Maybe you just need a mental reset, says Adam Alter, NYU professor of marketing and psychology and author of the new book, Drunk Tank Pink, which hits bookstores tomorrow. About the name: Cops used to paint the "drunk tank" -- the jail cell where they tossed intoxicated prisoners -- a Pepto Bismol-pink hue, because they believed it had a weakening effect. Football teams even made their visiting teams' locker rooms this color, until it was outlawed by the NFL. Nuts, right?
The premise of the book? Our surroundings have a huge impact on the way we think -- and that because of this, we can use our surroundings to our advantage. Check out three of our fave examples below.
Use nature to restore your focus. Trees, water, grass, sky -- essentially anything that naturally moves and changes and evolves -- can help snap you out of a mental rut, says Alter. When you're feeling frazzled or burnt out, try spending five minutes in a natural setting -- your backyard, a park or just looking out your window at the birds and squirrels scampering around. (Better yet, squeeze in an outdoor workout. Major mind/body benefits all around.)
Hold yourself accountable. Research shows that we tend to be more honest when we feel we're being watched. (Specifically, one study found that office workers were more likely to pay for their self-serve coffee when there was a photograph of eyes taped above the "honesty box." Crazy!) Apply this idea to self-accountability, by hanging a mirror -- or a photo of someone you don't want judging you -- in places you want to encourage good behavior: in the freezer near the ice cream, in your wallet to stop mindless credit card spending, etc.
Give challenges a positive spin. If you're worried about a stressful work event or a social gathering, think of it with a different label -- an opportunity, rather than a threat. Nervous about hosting an elaborate dinner party for friends? Call it the "Dinner Party Challenge" and push yourself to make something new you've never tried before. If it goes well, fantastic ... and if it doesn't go quite as planned, that's okay too. Party on, Wayne!
How have you used your environment to outsmart negative thoughts? Tweet us at @amandaemac and @SELFmagazine.
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